Traditionally, the invitations are written according to who is hosting (paying for) the wedding. More and more couples are paying for their own weddings(60%) and it's very proper to reflect this on the invitations. Invitations are usually ordered 4-6 months before the wedding but printers can complete them in a very short time-frame. 

Below are a few of the styles that are most prevalent:
 

Because of the many variations in the definition of family today, your invitation can reflect whatever you need it to. Divorced parents can be listed separately, life-partners and deceased parents can also be recognized.  Before you choose the wording for your invitation, take a minute to speak to your parents about it. You may be surprised to find that traditional wording is a lot more important to them than you may have imagined. 

An invitation can be as simple or as ornate as your budget allows. There are do-it-yourself kits available for couples looking for a way to economize. There are discount stationary companies who will print as elaborate an invitation as you want.  You can choose all of the trimmings - enclosures, maps, foil-lined envelopes, ribbons, matching bookmarks and stationary  - or you can send a simple, heartfelt invitation that reflects your own lifestyle.  Your invitation will give guests an idea of what kind of wedding to expect and will be an extension of your taste and style. 

Coming soon: BridalZine will be bringing you a comprehensive on-line invitation resource!  To view and order more like the invitation above, visit our friends at Discount Invitations!

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